Consider this too: women DEFINE themselves by their relationships just as you and I do by our careers. )Then, when you see her on Saturday, use my opening kiss technique where you walk right up and give her a big, passionate kiss right on the lips even before you say hello.

If women are in good, solid, loving relationships, they feel successful just as you do when youre on a career path. Thats how women feel when theyre not dating anyone. This is going to knock her right off her stilettos.

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Neder: I have liked a woman at my work for sometime now.

We were out with others from work one evening and I admitted to her how I felt after getting a little drunk.

One more question she mentioned that she doesnt really want to date anyone from work because of a bad experience that she had in the past. Do you think thats why she doesnt want a boyfriend at the moment? Whenever a girl tells you that she "...isn't ready for a relationship..." or "...doesn't want a boyfriend..." big, green flags should go off in your mind. You'll instantly have your path set and all you need to do is follow it. Ill explain in a minute, but first, you need some foundation.

Heres the most important rule I can give you about women: watch their actions - don't listen to their words.

Then, they let down their guards and feel relieved because they know that theyre with someone that has things handled. Best regards...------------------------------------------------------------------Have a love, dating, relationship, sex or man/woman question? Having written 3 books ("Being a Man in a Woman's World" series) and is working on others, hundreds of articles, been on hundreds of radio and TV shows, he is funny, direct and intuitive.

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Treat it like she didnt even say it because she didnt! If she brings up the work thing again, just say, Yeah, I know many guys and girls arent mature enough to handle this.

Its too bad that this guy wasnt, but you and I wont have that problem because were cool. All you need to do is simply address her fear, tell her that its a non-issue and go back to having a great time.

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