Dating a man who has another woman pregnant
Are you concerned about whether your boyfriend will want to have children with you, given he already has three of his own?
If he does want to have children with you, are you worried that it won’t mean as much to him as it does to you, as a first-time parent? Did you envision motherhood coming later in your life?
If you don’t choose to stay in the relationship, you will likely need to have another kind of difficult conversation about why you are leaving the relationship.
First, I would encourage you to explore why you are having such difficulty accepting the fact your boyfriend already has children. Relationships can be quite complicated when only two people are involved—each person brings his or her own unique goals, dreams, and expectations, as well as wounds from previous relationships. Add three children and their mother to the mix and things can get very complicated, very quickly.
But the question for you is, how are you experiencing this? Do you get along well with them or is there a lot of tension between you?
I can, however, suggest some areas for you to explore as you consider your next steps.
As is often true with relationships, it is a bit more complicated than that.
Unfortunately, I can’t give you a simple yes-or-no answer.
I can't seem to accept the fact he's already experienced having a family. - Torn Thank you for writing in with such a rich and complex question.
The last time he called he was askin me if I had made a decision about what I was gonna do (abort or keep).
Told him that I hadnt aborted and I was gonna keep it, but I didnt need anything from him, and he didnt have to call me anymore.
Boy I guess that was a relief for him, cuz he sure as hell hasnt called once.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating