Dating a widower

We had some really lovely romantic dates, DTD, and all the while he has been romantic, caring and attentive.

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I hope you remain happy together :-) I don't have the experience of dating a widower, I was widowed almost 6 years ago, although my DH had been ill for three years prior. It was difficult for both of us in different ways, I suffered from 'widows guilt' I worried about what other people would say or think, worried about enjoying myself, but mostly worried about my three children.

He worried about living up to my DH, who I still loved.

My partner of 10 years had been a widower for 9 years when we met and he definitely had not been ready for a relationship before that.

However I think that was more to do with being busy working and bringing up young teenagers.

Hi, I am sure there are some wise people on here who can help me.

I have been dating the most lovely and wonderful man for the past 3 months. At first he said he was initially looking for companionship and to see where that led.

Suddenly, this week, he has drawn the blinds up, and decided that he's not ready to move on after all - saying that he is constantly comparing me to his deceased DW. I have been divorced for 6 years and only had one (2 year) relationship since. ) going into a long term relationship like this are:- has he grieved?

Prior to meeting Mr Lovely Widower I did a little online dating but became slightly disillusioned after meeting so many serial daters that when I met Mr Lovely I was cautious at first, having been burnt before. This is important as he will not move on properly until he goes through that process.

I slowly allowed myself to trust him, and consequently have fallen head over heels. I know it seems daft if I was only seeing him for 3 months but having finally let my guard down with someone I totally trusted and loved being with, it's hit me really hard. Thank you x I think all you can do is give him space, can you be friends for now?? But yes when he's ready he can and will move on...- does he have dc's?

Does this mean you will take on a role of step mum/mum.

I agree with the poster who said it might be coming up to an anniversary of some sort.

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