Dating emotionally damaged women

I don’t know that I fully agree with that, but it’s neither here nor there! The best things come when you’re least expecting them. Everything happens for a reason, so don’t close yourself off from a potential prospect because of a looming fear of being hurt.

Dating emotionally damaged women

Everyone goes through a different recovery process when a relationship ends.

Much like grieving a death, recovering from the end of a relationship takes time and involves step-by-step improvement.

To quote her, “To reach this broken point, takes years of running and being in things that aren’t 100 percent right.”What hurts the most about that statement is her follow-up, saying that because of her past, she won’t get into relationships and must always maintain control when talking to a guy. When you lose it, you lose your perceived upper hand in a relationship.

The real problem there is that you are inhibiting yourself from maintaining, and flourishing, in a relationship.

But if you place a frog in a pot of tepid water and start to boil the water very slowly, the frog would continue to stay in the pot of water until it boils to death.

Now this may be a metaphor to prove a cautionary tale about change and our inability to see the signs.I found myself asking if the guarded nature of these women inhibits their ability to date men and have fun, and surprisingly, they all answered the same way: no.They also all admitted that their friends were the single biggest source of the pressure they feel to be in a relationship.This is a sad reality for so many women, and probably also some men out there; it’s a rough reality. My fear for these women is that their fear of being hurt again is inhibiting them from seeing the one person who could be truly special for them. It’s common - too common amongst women of Generation-Y between the ages of 20 and 30, unfortunately.Dating is not a race, and it’s not a competition, but at some point, it’s healthy to settle down and try to maintain a serious partner versus sleeping around. The only way to find happiness in a loving relationship after being burned by another is to just give it a shot.If the change is gradual, and you choose not to see the changes, you may never ever realize it.

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