Dating investment bankers

Xi has also worked as a stockbroker in New York City.

Let's face it: sometimes where she works can be enough to make her a hot ticket item.

Though it may be tempting to assign types to investment bankers you might come across and date, look beyond the grooming and typecasts and get to know the person behind the "bling." Remind yourself that you are dealing with a mere mortal who happens to be in a high cachet career.

If he is making you feel like a burden, something is wrong. Literally there are moments when I can feel the positive energy that I'm injecting into my life. I told him that I was glad he was okay and that it was a relief that all the horrible things that H thought would happen to him if we broke up, didn't. When I tell people it's been months they get a bit shocked.

If he doesnt find joy in making you happy, something is wrong. He couldn't even call me because I blocked his number. Its shocking because I had no idea how broken I was in the first place to need all this healing. His friend implied that while H's behaviors were seemingly normal, that he took it really hard and was really down, but managing. As H continues his spree of going out and bumping into people we know and telling them we are broken up, I get more and more calls. It's still annoying me that he's out literally every night bumping into my friends/acquaintances. But I'm trying to let that anger and frustration go, because he is part of my past and it doesn't really matter anymore.

Whether you are dating an investment banker or are curious about what dating one might entail, be advised that though your date may be smart, dapper and well-heeled, and possibly a challenge, in the end, courtesy, common sense and modesty can go a long way in making dating "work." Get past the image.

Sure, investment bankers have a lot going for them, and it's just not their expensive tailored clothing and sporty cars, or their drive and ambition that can be so alluring.While it is likely that the investment banker you are dating can afford to take you out to eat at fine dining establishments many times over, do not make the nice meal the primary reason you are dating him.For one, it is not courteous, and two, if he has been laid off, it may be placing him in a difficult position to have to pay an expensive bill. He motivated me, knew how to have fun, let loose and not give a fuck about what anyone thought about him. And his friendship taught me that a guy should be there for you. He was optimistic and just generally excited about life.In fact, things have really worked out for the best for me. He took responsibility, there was no such thing as me paying for anything in his presence, or me driving for that matter.

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