Dating multiple women to find a wife

Women seem to acknowledge and understand the rules that men play by, but men don’t seem to want to acknowledge that women are allowed to play by these same rules.

My grandfather used to always tell me that a lady cannot do what a man does and still be called a lady.

If you are sleeping with him, he will believe that you are also sleeping with the other guy, plus him, so now you are a slut. We are deciding; the same way that guys date multiple women. It is not an easy thing to do, to decide on the person you want to be with for the rest of your life. I never had more than one date with someone I didn't like. There's always going to be someone you connect with more.

Men hate to compete, especially for a woman – they just make me sick. Men just want to be the only one, while they run around dating multiple women. But I was never going to be serious with him until he made that move.

Guys will chase us, waste our time, and then we are left trying to figure out where we made the mistake.

Isn't the reason why men date multiple women is so that they have choices? But too many times I have seen some ladies that are my friends who take guys on a ride, then not stay with the guy because he is ‘too this’ or ‘too that’.

Let me clear some air before we continue with this, which is undoubtedly the douchiest post I've written yet.

I haven't dated just one girl at a time for over a year. But if you want to do it in New York, I can offer some guidelines and pointers. If a woman is not in a mutually committed relationship, she should be able to date as many men as she chooses. I had a roundtable discussion with a few of my friends (both men and women) about this and was quite surprised by some of the answers that I received.If a woman is dating more than one man at a time, she is not giving enough time or effort to finding out if she is truly compatible with any of them.Julian: Come on women - you guys are the ones that end up deciding if you will date the man again. So why date more than one man if, from the start, you may know which guy you’re going to most likely end up with? Wrap up (Anique): For the most part, I don’t think men and women will ever quite agree on this topic.There seems to be an obvious double-standard regarding the rules of dating for men and the rules of dating for women.Dating three women at the same time is asking for trouble, like a squirrel spending too much time in the street. Two, I'm in no way saying you should date multiple women or should even want to. They aren't New Yorkers yet, and many of them won't last long enough to ever be.

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