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Joshua Harris' book "I Kissed Dating Goodbye," which railed against sex before marriage and homosexuality, sold over 1 million copies and became a fixture in Christian youth groups after coming out 22 years ago."I have lived in repentance for the past several years -- repenting of my self-righteousness, my fear-based approach to life, the teaching of my books, my views of women in the church, and my approach to parenting to name a few," Harris wrote in the post."To the LGBTQ community, I want to say that I am sorry for the views that I taught in my books and as a pastor regarding sexuality.I regret standing against marriage equality, for not affirming you and your place in the church, and for any ways that my writing and speaking contributed to a culture of exclusion and bigotry. His book encouraged young people to avoid dating and remain celibate before marriage.Earlier, Harris told NPR that while the Bible gives "certain commandments and guidance" relating to sexuality and relationships, Christians often take truths from God's word and add extra human regulation onto them, the pastor contended.
"I stopped having to be constantly right about everything," he said.
"I just became a student who was listening." Today, Harris said he's working with those who have been hurt by his book and is even producing a documentary that shares his journey and delves into how religious communities talk about sex and relationships.
Joshua Harris born as Joshua Eugene Harris is an American pastor and author and is well known as the author of I Kissed Dating Goodbye (1997).
He explained what he believed at the time to be the biblical approach to dating and relationships.
"Youth, zeal, certainty, ambition ..have the tendency to set the world on fire.
I was writing to fellow Christians, I was saying, 'We need to be serious about our faith, we won't have sex until we're married, and if we want to avoid premarital sex, we should radically change our lifestyle, and that means we should stop dating.'" The book quickly became a staple among the Christian community, selling over 1.2 million copies and propelling Harris to instant fame.
It includes numerous sections on the dangers of lust, such as one in which Harris wrote: "Lust is a problem. So should you."The book also featured a passage in which Harris described being "checked out" by three gay men.
"I'll never forget the anger and disgust I felt at that moment," he wrote.
Another Instagram message posted nine days later said he had “undergone a massive shift in regard to my faith in Jesus”.
He wrote: “The popular phrase for this is ‘deconstruction’, the biblical phrase is ‘falling away’.
"It's been such an emotional roller coaster for me," he said.Tags: Adult Dating, affair dating, sex dating