Interracial dating bible

We stick to our “tribes” and people feel rejected or jealous when they see someone from “their tribe” dating someone who looks different.Meeting your partner’s family is when you two are of a different race.

As Ernest Baker points out at Gawker, it is based on years of white dominance in society.

Whites are privileged in this society and having what they have serves as validation for a lot of people.

The typical advice about interracial dating says to “just ignore it.” In reality, it won’t be so easy.

You might have to adjust your relationship to avoid the discomfort and general displeasure of society.

And remember, even if the meeting does end up being terrible, ! Here are just some of the questions/comments you can expect to hear when dating interracially.

Clay told me the story of a department store employee who was obsessing over Clay’s family and its racial makeup.

As liberal as your partner and community are, there is much to be said about the decades of internalized racism that his/her parents might harvest.

In this article about meeting the parents when you are in an interracial relationship, David Schiller gives some good tips, like pretending that you like all the food and refraining from mentioning race at all. Even if you think your family is totally cool and not the least bit racist, it might still come as a surprise when you show up for dinner with a person from ___ race. Some of these questions might be well intentioned, but ignorant and painful nonetheless.

People who you think are only seeing your skin might actually be seeing themselves.

Sad as it is, dealing with the racist idiots in the world might actually help you grow as a couple.

Successful minorities love to say, “You're privileged but I'm so smart and awesome and financially secure that I have the same, if not better, house, car, and woman as you.”Need evidence that some black men see dating a white woman as a sign of their success?

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